Just Exploring San Francisco

At the beginning of June, I got to spend about 10 days in San Francisco. I didn’t get in as much exploring as I would have liked, what with training and post-work activities every day. Despite all my planning and prep, we ended up taking lots of taxis, and there’s only so much you can see from a car.

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Cousin Jason

I extended my stay by a few days so I could visit with my cousin, who’s an event planner at an Alameda winery on a former naval base. He’d invited me to a “Wine Rodeo” as soon as I told him the dates of my visit. Since I love free stuff, wine (in an entirely uneducated way, as in, “I love drinking wine”) and my cousin, I said yes, and invited a friend who lives in the city.

On Wednesday, my cousin asked if my friend has a car. I’d looked at a map and knew we had to cross a bridge to get to this winery, but our carless state didn’t seem like a big deal. Cousin takes a ferry, so I figured I could do that, too.

On Saturday morning, I was slow in leaving my training accommodations (not the best pictures here, but it was fantastic) and moving to my cousin’s. Around 2, I finally felt able to thinking about getting to the winery (the event started at 4). I called my friend, who was not up for a trek across the Bay and was not encouraging about public transportation.

Graduation…I was slow in leaving my accommodations on Saturday morning
 

“Yeah, but then you have to take MUNI downtown, and then take BART and then another train…” So I decided, “Whatever. I’ll go alone.” I did some Googling, found out it would take me about two hours to get there, but still: “Whatever. I’m going anyway.”

People. I do pretty good research before I go places, but since I thought I was going with a local, I was not prepared. Without a car, going to Alameda from the Richmond neighborhood is a trek. The bus to Fisherman’s Wharf, where I was catching a ferry, took me nearly an hour (I managed to catch a slow bus). But as this was almost the only exploring I got to do alone, and because there was a ferry involved, it was an adventure. Really, I think I just wanted to ride a boat.

Fisherman’s Wharf is a big tourist trap, which I would have known had I read this article  before my trip. But hey, sometimes, a tourist trap can be fun. Not so much on a sunny Saturday when you’re hungover, but this is where my rushed Googling showed me I could catch a ferry. I went to a touristy sourdough place for lunch, had an overpriced grilled cheese on sourdough bread (I don’t even like sourdough bread, but yes. Hungry and tired), then waited for the ferry.

A few notes on the ferry ride:
1. I’m so glad I went.
2. It was cold on the deck, but worth it.
3. Those ferry boats go fast.

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Once the ferry dropped me off at Alameda, I had to walk about a mile and a half to the winery, first on a road with no sidewalk, then through the old naval base past abandoned, overgrown buildings. I arrived at the event at 7:40, 20 minutes before the scheduled end. Apart from wanting to ride a ferry, I really wanted to support the cousin and see this winery. The event took place in an old hangar, with giant doors that swing, rather than slide, open. Cousin got me some wine, I bought Gabe a bottle, and I took photos on the airstrip. Looking back at the city, I congratulated myself on sucking it up and hauling myself across the Bay.

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SFMAY11_128Wine party in the hangar
 

At 8:10, I had to turn around and power walk back to the dock to catch the return ferry (the one after didn’t leave until 10:15 or something). The ferry workers asked if I was getting off at the Ferry Building, and to change it up a bit, I said yes. Trying not to look too much like a starry-eyed tourist, I wandered around until I found the trolley I needed, then wandered some more, pausing to photograph sewing machines in a window and walk up and down stairs at Union Square Park. High off my little victory (because, really, all I did was ride a ferry and manage to find a winery), I loved everything that night. But I know when to stop (sometimes) and eventually gave up trying to arrange any meet-ups and went home.

Sewing machines

So that was it. The next day, I went to a beach, the Castro and the Haight, most of which just reinforced my California dream (I do not care for the hippies). Am I searching for plane tickets back right now? Yes.

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Update before disappearing for another month

I’m back, with the usual update post that follows these long periods of procrastination absence. There are about 10 things I could make into blog posts, and I can’t pick where to start.

So, as briefly as possible:

1. I got engaged! To my manfriend of nearly six years. We’ve done exactly one night of wedding planning so far, which involved making a guest list that’s creeping up to 100. My event coordinator cousin tells me that anything under 120 is still small. I don’t really agree, but he’s also the one with links to favorite wedding blogs, so I should believe him.

2. I got a new job. Surely you’ve seen me gushing about Airbnb on Twitter? In June, they flew me to San Francisco for a week of training, my first time in California. Since Peace Corps, San Francisco became a goal. I decided I needed to live there, without ever having visited. Suspicions confirmed. I want to move there.

Golden Gate

Also, I really like my job.

3. We got a new couch. Certain friends and followers will know the love/hate relationship we had with our previous couch (I complained about it for a long time, but when it was finally time to spend money, I switched to, “No, this couch is fine. Let’s wait. It’s ok.”). It nearly crushed us when we moved it from our old apartment. Sawdust gathered in little mounds underneath it, and yellow stuffing burst from holes in the couch cushions. It folded out for the visitor brave (or stubborn) enough to spend a night essentially sleeping on a metal bar.  And now it is gone, replaced by something our guests will hopefully find very comfortable, both for sitting and sleeping.

And that’s about it. See you next month!

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Stranger 31: Mfalme

 

Stranger 31 I’m in San Francisco this week for training with Airbnb.com. I’ve met lots of wonderful people, including Mfalme, a tour guide and driver at The Urban Safari. He drove our group around the city in one of those open air buses, which sounds like more fun than it was (we went to the top of a windy, fog-covered hill). I’m impressed by anyone who can drive a huge vehicle, but even more by someone who drives them up and down these crazy hills.

I’m not sure this photo fully conveys the length of Mfalme’s dreadlocks, which he’s been growing out for almost 32 years. I thought they would be heavy, but they’re probably lighter than my hair.

More photos to come… but now I have to figure out how to get to a winery in Alameda via public transportation.

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365 Photo Project Actually 357

On June 1st, 2010, I took this picture, starting my first “photo a day” project.

June 1, 2010
Yesterday, I finished a year of photos with this one:

May 31, 2011 In between, I missed eight photos, mostly because I forgot, and once because I lost the photo. I took lots of after-dark, at-home photos because I only remembered I needed a photo at the end of the day. There are many photos of Gabe, flowers, trees, and inanimate objects, but I like looking over the entire set on Flickr and seeing my year: my fifth anniversary with Gabe, visits from friends, returning to New Orleans, autumn leaves, driving from Houston to Louisville with my mom, moving into a new apartment, gross snow, a cluster of strangers’ faces, and then flowers again.

September 26, 2010A bouquet picked by my mom to accompany us on our drive

A note on the Strangers project — I didn’t succeed in photographing someone new for 30 days in a row, and I lost the 30th photo. I didn’t get bolder in approaching people. But I did learn some things, like:

-most people are open to having their photograph taken by a stranger (although I’m aware that this might not be so were I a different race, gender, or age)
-hair feathers are a thing (Kelly)
- better laundry etiquette from Patricia. I’ve adopted her practice of neatly arranging other people’s laundry when I take it out of a machine or dryer that I want to use. I was previously guilty of leaving it in a pile, which I suspect is what most people do.

Even though I didn’t quite achieve the goal I set for myself with the Strangers project, I want to get back to it. I like talking to people — it makes me nervous, but it’s a good exercise. Karen Walrond, awesome woman and author of The Beauty of Different, has a 1000 Faces project (her whole site is marvelous — I just got totally sidetracked poking around on it, again) as part of her life list. 1000 is a big number, and her ambition, not mine. I think I’ll go for 100 strangers and see how I feel after that.

I like that I started a photo-a-day project mid-year instead of January 1st. We tend to reflect more at the New Year as the calendar changes, and this has forced me to reflect on a year at a different time. That said, I think I will start the project again on January 1st, 2012. I welcome a break from the pressure of taking a photo every day, but that doesn’t mean I’ll leave the house without the camera.

 

 

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Four Things I Learned from Two Days at Camp

I never went to camp as a kid. I went to day-camp for five years, but until an eighth grade class trip, I’d never been to a sleep-away camp. My family isn’t a camping family, and almost every time I’ve gone camping as an adult, it’s ended poorly – too cold to sleep, rain and a collapsed tent, and more rain. Sleeping conditions and bathing facilities in Togo often resembled camping, and the last time I went to camp was in Togo, as a counselor. We didn’t have zip lines, canoeing, or even a full pool (there was an empty one), but our Togolese campers were happy with on-the-ground challenges, silly games and crafts.

TOGO_MAYAUG08_076 Retrieving the bucket from the ant-filled circle

Due to a six-week teaching stint, I was asked if I could chaperone part of a middle school camping trip. I accepted, thinking it might be fun, though chaotic – I had trouble maintaining order in the classroom, so trying to do anything with 11 and 12-year-olds in the woods sounded even more difficult. I was wrong. It wasn’t that challenging (just exhausting), and it was a lot of fun. I drove home last Wednesday afternoon, thinking about what I learned in two days at camp:

1. Tether ball hurts – Until last week, I never played tether ball. After about two games, my hand hurt and the muscles in my right arm were incredibly sore, but I couldn’t stop playing. Clearly, I need to start doing push-ups again.

2. Thirty feet looks easy from the ground – Standing underneath the high ropes course, watching a kid inch his way across the rope, I thought, “That doesn’t look so bad.” Five minutes later, I’m shaking on the suspension line, wondering aloud if it’s the line or my legs shaking. As with so many things, crossing a rope at 30 feet looked easier than it actually was, even though I knew the harness and anchoring camp counselor weren’t going to let me fall. Still, landing back on the ground was the best part.

3. The best echo may be near Fort Knox, Kentucky – I’ve done plenty of yelling at mountains, but never have I heard an echo as good as the one that bounced back at us from Indiana. We went on an evening hike that took us along a bluff overlooking the Ohio River, and at one overlook, the counselors told the kids a tale about campers across the river, just waiting to hear from them. We yelled greetings and farewells, and each time, there was an immediate echo, silence, and then, a precise, though fainter, second echo, that really sounded like it was coming from farther in the woods. I think I was more excited than the kids.

May 17, 2011The best echo is near here

4. Middle schoolers are awesome – One of the grades I taught won me over while I was still at the school, but the class I chaperoned had been challenging in the classroom, which was why I was nervous about the trip. But I had a cabin full of eight well-behaved girls and a cooperative activities group who mostly tried all the activities while I was with them. On the hike, a boy picked up several rocks, told me they were geodes, then proceeded to break them open and declare the insides beautiful. One girl decided she wanted to do the climbing wall a second time with her eyes closed, following her peers’ directions. Her peers wandered off mid-climb, leaving me and the counselors to finish directing her up the wall, but she did it. I was proud of and impressed by her persistence in achieving her goal.

I enjoy hanging out with kids, and apparently, I like camp activities like going down a giant slide in the dark, riding a zip line and making s’mores (but I knew that already). But after a night of bad sleep and two days of rain and chilly temperatures, I was also happy to come home, take a hot bath and sleep in my bed. I’ll still attempt to convince someone to go camping with me this summer.

May 18, 2011

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Just Exploring Louisville: Little Loomhouse and Iroquois Park

I don’t usually plan to get lost. Yes, when I ran, I sometimes did turn down several roads I didn’t know, then made myself find my way back to my starting point (resulting at least once in an hour-long run and a bloody sock). But when I leave home with a destination in mind, I like to go to that place following a planned route (no GPS). If I make a wrong turn, I don’t mind, as long as I’m not late or in the middle of a 15-hour drive.

Yesterday, I finally headed to Iroquois Park, which wasn’t on the Louisville To Do List, but probably should have been. I also needed to visit it and the amphitheater for NileGuide. So I planned my bus routes, got my bike, packed a book and an apple, and headed out for what I expected would be a two-hour adventure. On the second bus, I looked out the window at the south Louisville homes and businesses, enjoying the many turns this route took. Ten minutes later and two streets east of where I expected to be, I recalled the little gray line that is the number 4 bus route on the system map. I remembered it as a mostly straight line south, and I did not remember it passing some of the landmarks I saw. I started doubting whether I’d even looked at the bus number when I got on it. What bus was this? Where were we going?

I finally approached the bus driver and asked if he would pass the park. He stopped the bus right there, pointed to the next intersection and directed me toward Iroquois Park.

“When you get to DeSales, you’re close.”

Turns out DeSales is a high school, not a road, and Iroquois Park is about three blocks from it. But before I made it to the park, I got distracted by this brown sign for “Little Loomhouse.” It was the second one I’d seen. I wanted to know what a Little Loomhouse is.

Sign to Little Loomhouse

After pumping up a hill, correctly guessing which split to take when the road forked (left), I found it. Little Loomhouse is where the sisters who wrote the “Happy Birthday” song first sang it. It’s also the former home and workshop of Lou Tate, a Master Weaver who designed a small table loom, wove table linens for Eleanor Roosevelt, used weaving as therapy for World War II soldiers at Fort Knox, and, as a weaving historian, amassed a huge collection of weaving patterns, research and samples. She sounds like a seriously impressive woman, especially since she would go searching for drafts (weaving patterns) all around the state, sometimes on horseback.

My guides into the history of Little Loomhouse and Lou Tate were Frances Crain and Jean Randles, two volunteers who were there setting up for the Spin-A-Yarn Storytelling Festival this Saturday. Ms. Frances, 91, has been volunteering there since 1986, and Ms. Jean, since 1993. Little Loomhouse consists of three cabins, Esta, Wisteria and Tophouse. I met the women in Tophouse, Tate’s weaving workshop. Today, the organization offers weaving classes, and visitors get an individual weaving lesson for $10. Ms. Frances immediately demonstrated how to use the foot pedals, then sat me down so I could try. It’s way easier than the lap loom I had as a kid.

Lou Tate Table Loom/Little Loom Lou Tate Table Loom – I wove the top two rows.

From there, they took me to the gift shop in the middle cabin, Wisteria, then down to the first cabin, Esta, where Tate lived. Now there’s a collection of weaving and spinning artifacts, a timeline of Lou Tate’s life, and a copy of the pattern she used for Roosevelt’s linens, as well as Roosevelt’s letter commissioning them, and a copy of the check she wrote. I got to use hand cards to straighten some wool, which was perfect — two weeks ago at a Derby party, I had a bourbon-fueled exchange about my sudden desire to card wool. My dream has been fulfilled.

Truly, the best part of my visit was chatting with the volunteers. They were full of information and stories, and Ms. Frances was very concerned that I make it home on my bike — she offered me a ride, then advised me on the best bus routes to take home. She also wanted to feed me lunch. I passed on chicken soup, but had my apple for lunch, sitting with the two ladies at the table in the Esta kitchen. Before I left, Ms. Frances gave me two yarn dolls she made, one for me, and one for my mom in Switzerland, whom I’m supposed to bring when she visits.

From my weaving adventure, I headed to Iroquois Park, where I biked to the top of the big hill and got some lovely views of Louisville and the surrounding area. The road to the top is only open to cars on certain days, so I had it to myself. On the bike back down, I saw a bird so blue it made me brake while simultaneously going, “Ah!” It landed, hopped and flew away at my inept attempts to photograph it.

View from Hill in Iroquois Park

After that spurt of exploration, I feel like I need to update the Louisville To Do list to include more south and southwest Louisville spots, even though I haven’t accomplished all the sites already on it. The more I can do on bike, the better. And I don’t mind if I get a lost or distracted.

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Notes on Spring

Anyone who’s checked in for my irregular updates for the last year knows I love spring – the first hints of warmth, the tiny green leaf buds on tree branches, the flowers everywhere, the brilliant, rich green after rain. We’ve had several false starts this spring, and even though it’s MAY FOURTH, I’ve had to pull out the knitted boots and multiple layers again. I thought today would be sunny, and while it’s not pouring like it has been for almost two full weeks, no one’s getting sunburned in that partly-cloudy joke.

Still, this spring had several moments before the torrential downpours that gave me that heart-soaring, winter-is-over, spring-is-here feeling, mostly collected on the walks to and from my temporary substitute job. Such as:

*on an afternoon walk, stopping to watch two little Dachshunds peek over the edge of a second-story balcony to bark at me

*passing a house one evening with a man in shorts grilling on the front porch. On the other side of the window behind him, his wife played piano. Front door open.

Daffodils I got an early glimpse of spring in February in Texas

*a Sunday morning, early April, crepes and coffee on the balcony, while looking at Yann Arthus Bertrand’s The Earth From Above (the book, not the website this link takes you to)

*walking to school at 7:30 in the morning under trees heavy with flowers, hearing someone practice violin, passing a little boy waiting at the curb with a plastic bag and his mom’s purse

April 12, 2011 Every spring, there’s lots of looking up at trees and taking pictures

*trumpet accompaniment to the mini-parade on the street outside for the Cherokee Triangle art fair

*on sunny days, the light in the trees and flowers, because now there are leaves and flowers in the place of snow and cold.

April 18, 2011

Hoping for more of the above and less of this:

FLOODAPRL_2011_013 Ohio River at Waterfront Park
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Stranger 30: Helen… was deleted

Today, in stupid things you shouldn’t do, especially right after reading about how you shouldn’t do them: deleting pictures from digital cameras before assuring you’ve backed them up.

I rarely do this. In fact, I’ve been building up photos on the memory card for about two weeks, waiting until I had a chance to sort them on my computer and back them up to my external hard drive. Then, just now, I got excited about my thirtieth stranger photo and wanted to share it. I grabbed what I thought were the last four photos off my camera, which I thought were yesterday’s photo of the day and the photos of Helen, today’s stranger. I did this based on the TINY icon in the “list view” of the Finder window. No, I did not wait for the preview to open. Yes, I then decided it was high time to delete all the images from my camera… including yesterday’s photo (not interesting anyway), and the photos of Helen. What I grabbed from the camera were four photos of a beautiful meeting space I visited today. AFTER I met Helen.

April 28, 2011Beautiful building interior. NOT HELEN.

And of course this was one of my favorite strangers and stranger photos. Helen was standing outside one of the community college buildings on Broadway, and she agreed to let me take her picture, as long as it wasn’t going to be in the paper (website was ok). She was really kind and shared some personal information with me. She was the third person I asked to photograph today – the first woman told me her hair wasn’t ready, and the second guy said he was “trying to stay under the radar” (um, ok). So Helen, if you visit the site, thank you and I’m SO sorry your photo isn’t here. Maybe we’ll run into each other again.

And that is what impatience gets you.

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Stranger 29: Katherine

April 26, 2011/Stranger 29

Hey look, I took a stranger’s picture today. And wow, I’m out of practice.

First off, I was rejected by my first two attempts – a guy waiting in the entryway of whatever business is right behind the bus stop on Broadway between First and Brook, and a Sudanese woman holding an umbrella at the bus stop. I had her photo all planned out, but she said, “But I’m not ready.” Then we talked about how I know Khartoum is Sudan’s capital, but I’ve never been there, and Togo and Tonga are not the same thing.

I sat next to Katherine on the bus, played silly games with a little boy sitting near the front (pointing at each other and making faces — I think at one point he shot me, which is not nice), and waited until the last few stops to ask if I could take her picture. I asked her questions and took several rapid-fire photographs while she answered, not really giving her a chance to just look at me. I also didn’t ask her if she is Katherine or Catherine. On the other hand, I like that the expression on her face probably best represents what most people think about this experience: “Why? Who ARE you? I wish this would end, please get your camera out of my face…”

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Stranger 28: Clara (and Max)

March 13, 2011/Stranger 28

Clara was very willing to let me take her picture and kept holding Max, whom she’d picked up to cross the street (I was waiting on the other side). Apparently, her son is a photographer. I was too nervous to ask any appropriate follow-up questions (“Oh, what kind of photography? Does he have his own business? Is he here in town? Does he need an assistant?”).

Yesterday, I looked through the photos I’ve taken so far for this project. It was only supposed to be 30 photographs over the span of a month, but since I missed days (mainly because the project stopped being the only thing I had to do in a day), it’s taking longer. I may continue after 30 and start calling it the Strangers Project, since I’m not doing it every day. I’m also not that confident in approaching people yet, although I wonder if that confidence will ever develop. Maybe I’ll pick a random number of people to photograph and aim for that. 50? 100? 83?

Thoughts?

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